Stress, poor sleep and muscle tension: why you ache when life is hectic
How stress and poor sleep show up as muscle tension and aches, what the NHS suggests for self-help, and when to ask for support.
When life is busy or stressful, the body often feels it. The NHS lists muscle tension or pain among the physical symptoms of stress, along with headaches, dizziness, stomach problems and sleep difficulties. Poor sleep and aches can also feed each other. This page is about the physical side, and about knowing where to turn if you are struggling.
When to get urgent help
Call 999 or go to A&E straight away if any of these apply. If you need to talk to someone, the Samaritans are available on 116 123 at any time.
- You or someone else needs immediate help, or has seriously harmed themselves
- Chest pain or pressure, breathlessness, sweating or feeling faint
- A drooping face, weakness or numbness in an arm, or slurred speech
What it can feel like
- Tight, achy shoulders and neck, or a clenched jaw
- Tension headaches, or a general feeling of being 'wound up' in the body
- Aching that is worse on stressful or poorly slept days
- Trouble sleeping, and feeling tired but unable to relax
Common contributors
- Stress, anxiety and low mood, which can raise muscle tension
- Sleep problems. The NHS says causes of insomnia include stress, anxiety or depression, and that long-term pain can disrupt sleep in turn
- Long periods at a desk or screen, or less exercise and fewer breaks than usual
- Caffeine, alcohol and irregular meals can make things worse
General self-care
These are general comfort measures many people find reasonable. They are not a treatment plan, and what suits one person may not suit another.
- The NHS suggests regular exercise, setting aside time for yourself, breathing exercises, planning ahead for stressful days, and taking on less at once
- Talk to someone you trust. The Samaritans can be reached on 116 123 at any time
- For sleep, the NHS suggests getting up at the same time every day, going to bed when sleepy, avoiding caffeine, alcohol and nicotine for six hours before bed, relaxing for an hour beforehand, and keeping the bedroom dark and quiet
- Gentle movement, a warm shower or heat on tight muscles can help muscles feel less tense for some people
- Avoid relying on alcohol, cigarettes or other substances to cope
When to see your GP
See your GP, or call NHS 111 if you need urgent help that is not an emergency, if any of the following apply:
- You are struggling to cope, or self-help is not working
- You have had trouble sleeping for months, or it is making daily life hard
- Your aches are getting worse, or come with other new symptoms
Consider seeing your GP if:
- Call 999 or go to A&E if you or someone else needs immediate help, or has seriously harmed themselves. Call 999 for chest pain, breathlessness or signs of a stroke
- See your GP if you are struggling to cope, or self-help is not working. In England you can also self-refer to NHS Talking Therapies if you are 18 or over (16 or over in some areas)
- Call NHS 111 if you need urgent help that is not an emergency
- See your GP if you have had trouble sleeping for months, or it is making daily life hard to cope with
Where an osteopath fits in
There is limited good-quality research showing that hands-on treatment changes the course of stress-related muscle tension, so I do not claim that osteopathy treats it.
What an osteopath can usefully do is assess your neck, shoulders, jaw and back, advise on movement, breathing and sleep routines, and help you build gentle activity into your week. I do not treat stress, anxiety or low mood, and if you are finding things hard, I will encourage you to speak to your GP or use NHS Talking Therapies. If the assessment suggests you need your GP, a physiotherapist or a specialist instead, I will tell you.
If you would like your symptoms assessed, you are welcome to book an appointment. Osteopathic care is not right for everyone, and if something needs medical attention first, I will tell you.
Common questions
Can stress cause muscle pain?
The NHS lists muscle tension or pain among the physical symptoms of stress. If it is persistent, getting worse, or accompanied by other symptoms, speak to your GP.
What helps if stress and poor sleep are making me ache?
The NHS suggests regular exercise, time for yourself, breathing exercises, talking to someone, and a regular sleep routine with limited caffeine and alcohol. See your GP if you are struggling to cope, and use NHS Talking Therapies if you want support.
Sources and further reading
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This page is general information to help you understand common aches and pains. It is not medical advice and cannot diagnose your problem. If you are worried about your symptoms, please speak to your GP or call NHS 111.